Snowplow parenting along with helicopter, free-range, tiger, etc. are labels that group certain parents into certain categories. Gone are the days, when parents were either “good” “bad” or “trying hard.” (It’s worth noting that most parents are “trying hard.”)

Today is different.

Parents are types of parents. Their behaviors label them. They even label themselves.

At one time, we called this stereotyping.

Should we like stereotyping? Didn’t we put that behind us – like years ago as in decades ago? We recognized that stereotyping encouraged prejudices. Not good.

So, keep it simple! Stick with “trying hard” parents, even saying it has a calming effect. And let’s face it – parents need all the calming they can get. It’s not easy being a parent.

If you are a young or new parent, do yourself a big favor; focus on your child and his/her wants/needs. You should understand this one indisputable truth… It is not about ME; it is about THEM (your children).

When you get up in the morning, think this thought – what is best for my child? Parenting is a responsibility, a responsibility that you want because the joys of parenting are almost impossible to measure.

Let’s be clear – this does not mean that your child gets to run you ragged. That’s the “parenting” part.

“I’m a parent!” That is the only label you need!

My name is Susana and I hope to share parenting dos and don’ts with you in the coming weeks and months. Please stop by again.